For my last how to column I wanted to discuss some of the “nuts and bolts” of this writing business. Some of my observations and lessons I’ve learned over the twenty-five years I have been writing.
1. Talent is important but equally or more important is perseverance with some luck thrown in.
2. Rejection is part of writing and sending your work out. We have to learn to move on and not let it stop us from writing. I have seen some very talented writers give up because of rejection (refer back to number one). Have a support group to help you through the rejections. We all need it from time to time. You should see my file of rejections!
3. Set a schedule to write. If not, it is easy to get sidetracked. Life happens.
4. The second sale is often harder than the first. It doesn’t get any easier after you sell the first book. The good part of this is that it keeps you on your toes and hopefully makes you a better writer. Don’t stop trying to improve your craft.
5. Deadlines are important to make. I can’t stress that enough. We are professionals and want to be treated as professionals.
6. Networking is important and can open doors for you whether it is through a conference, chapter meeting or online groups.
7. Critique groups can be good but remember the book is yours ultimately and you have to decide what advice to take or not take.
8. No agent is better than a bad agent.
9. Learn when to give up on a project and move on to a new one. I have heard of some writers working on the same book for years–polishing and polishing it. Learn to let go.
10. This business is subjective. One editor may not like your writing while another may. So don’t give up on a project because of one rejection (refer back to number one).
11. This business is cyclical. What is popular today, may not be tomorrow.
12. Take time for yourself and be aware of the signs of burnout. Stress will take its toll on you and your family.
13. Think twice before quitting your day job. This business is so unpredictable. I realize a day job can get in the way of writing sometimes (I have one) but there is value in having a job outside the home. I have gained a lot from working that I use in my writing. I interact with students and people which have enriched my writing and observations.
14. When something is bothering you about your book, listen to that inner voice. I have found it is usually right whether it is a plot element, the structure of a sentence, or a piece of dialogue.
15. Have fun with your writing. It will show in your work.
16. Thank God every day that you are able to do something you love to do–write. He is the reason for everything and enriches your writing and life.
I often dream of stories that might make a good book, but getting it on paper is another story. You have given me some good ideas to think about in your nuts and bolts area. I am going to remember them and try to see how it goes as I attempt to write a story. I just love the Love Inspired themed books that are out there. About ten books ago that I read I fell in love with my husband all over again. I just read your book A Daughter for Christmas and loved it, and found out the back of the book says that live in Tulsa where I had to drop you a note from Chandler, Okla. I didn’t know that were writers from Okla, except a friend of mine, Ann Meyers. Where I haven’t read any of her books in years. Who knows maybe one day my name could be on a book cover, we will see. Thanks for being a great writer. From a new reader from Chandler. Keep up the good work.